Another set of human quotes, wisdom words, proverbs, sayings collection

Another set of beautiful Quotations, parables, wisdom quotes, proverbs, life reflections or I can say Manifesto for perfect living...

These lessons are so invaluable they offer such great insights from people's life experiences. These lessons are always afresh for any human generation.. Great is a human being, who learns from other people's lessons. World is so full of diversity in many things but, humans are driven by set of universal principles called Emotions.. I think understanding and applying such lessons will greatly enhance human life in every way. Wish, some where some one benefits from this collection.

• The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our Attitudes.” 

• People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered: Forgive them anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives: Be kind anyway. If you are successful you will win some false friends and true enemies: Succeed anyway. If you are honest and frank people will try to cheat you: Be honest anyway. What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight: Build anyway. If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous of you: Be happy anyway. The good you do today, will often be forgotten by tomorrow: Do good anyway. Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough: Give your best anyway. You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway

• Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
• Forgive yourself for your faults and your mistakes and move on.
• It is our choices ... that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
• Celebrate endings - for they precede new beginnings.
• Let every day be the first day of the rest of your life, but especially let today be a new beginning.
• A break up is like a broken mirror. It is better to leave it broken than hurt yourself to fix it.
• Never be sad for what is over, just be glad that it was once yours.
• If you can’t save the relationship,  at least save your pride.
• The mind is everything - you become what you think. - Buddha
• Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to a better understanding of ourselves.
• If you let go a little, you will have a little peace. If you let go a lot, you will have a lot of peace.
• Discipline weighs ounces, regret weighs tons.  ~Author Unknown
• Everyone must choose one of two pains: The pain of discipline or the pain of regret.  
• It is a man's own mind, not his enemy or foe, that lures him to evil ways.  ~Buddha
• If passion drives you, let reason hold the reins.  ~Benjamin Franklin
• A man can be happy with any woman, as long as he does not love her.
• Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.
• The best thing is to be respected, the next, is to be loved; it is bad to be hated, but still worse to be despised.
• A wise man adapts himself to circumstances, as water shapes itself to the vessel that contains it.
• A foolish husband fears his wife; a prudent wife obeys her husband.
• Choose silence of all virtues, for by it you hear other men's imperfections, and conceal your own.
• Do not lift a rock only to drop it on your own foot
• Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
• Adopt the pace of nature:  her secret is patience.
• Patience is the best remedy for every trouble.
• One minute of patience, ten years of peace.
• The key to everything is patience. You get the chicken by hatching the egg, not by smashing it.
• Never run after a bus or a man. There will always be another one.
• Patience is the companion of wisdom.
• Beware of him that is slow to anger; for when it is long coming, it is the stronger when it comes, and the longer kept. Abused patience turns to fury.
• In every girl’s life there will always be those three guys: the one she hates, the one she can't get enough of, and the one she loves--and in the end, they're all the same guy...
• If you really, truly love someone, you can't stay mad at them forever. As much as you want to hate them for what they've done, your heart won't let you.
• "There are things we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know, but have to learn, and people whom we can't live without, but have to let go."
• In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends
• To silence another, first be silent yourself.
• True silence is the rest of the mind; it is to the spirit what sleep is to the body, nourishment and refreshment.
• Silence is one of the great arts of conversation.
• A silent mouth is sweet to hear
• You will find that silence or very gentle words are the most exquisite revenge for insult.
• Silence is one of the hardest arguments to refute.
• There is no reply to the ignorant like keeping silence
• The best answer to anger is silence.
• I have learned silence from the talkative, tolerance from the intolerant, and kindness from the unkind; yet strangely, I am ungrateful to these teachers
• Silence is the true friend that never betrays.
• Better to bend in the wind than to break.
• Fortune has a fickle heart and a short memory
• Sow melon, reap melon; Sow beans, reap beans.
• Respect the gods and the devils but keep them at a distance
• He who depends on himself will attain the greatest happiness
• A fool judges people by the presents they give him.
• Silence is a source of great strength.
• We need to find God, and he cannot be found in noise and restlessness. God is the friend of silence. See how nature - trees, flowers, grass- grows in silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence... We need silence to be able to touch souls.
• Deep vengeance is the daughter of deep silence.
• A man who lives right, and is right, has more power in his silence than another has by his words.
• When in doubt, choose change.
• Dear Heart, fall in love only when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely
• Happiness is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you turn your attention to other things, It comes and sits softly on your shoulder.
• Feelings come and feelings go. There is no need to fear them and no need to crave them. Let them come, and then let them go. No feeling is your permanent reality, no matter how intense it is.
• We must let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us
• When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves
• The superior man acts before he speaks, and afterwards speaks according to his action.
• We cannot change our past. We cannot change the fact that people act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude
• The key to change... is to let go of fear
• Self-discipline begins with the mastery of your thoughts. If you don't control what you think, you can't control what you do. 
• Simply, self-discipline enables you to think first and act afterward.
• The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for
• In reading the lives of great men, I found that the first victory they won was over them... self-discipline with all of them came first.
• A man without decision of character can never be said to belong to himself... He belongs to whatever can make captive of him. 
• Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anybody else expects of you. Never excuse yourself. Never pity yourself. 
• Be a hard master to yourself-and be lenient to everybody else.
• Rule your mind or it will rule you. 
• I have learned to live each day as it comes, and not to borrow trouble by dreading tomorrow.  It is the dark menace of the future that makes cowards of us.  
• As a rule, what is out of sight disturbs men's minds more seriously than what they see. 
• There are two days in the week about which and upon which I never worry... Yesterday and Tomorrow. 
• That the birds of worry and care fly over your head, this you cannot change, but that they build nests in your hair, this you can prevent.  ~Chinese Proverb
• When I look back on all these worries, I remember the story of the old man who said on his deathbed that he had had a lot of trouble in his life, most of which had never happened.
• Worry a little every day and in a lifetime you will lose a couple of years. If something is wrong, fix it if you can. But train yourself not to worry. Worry never fixes anything.
• Don't waste your life in doubts and fears: spend yourself on the work before you, well assured that the right performance of this hour's duties will be the best preparation for the hours or ages that follow it.
• Never let life's hardships disturb you ... no one can avoid problems, not even saints or sages.
• I am reminded of the advice of my neighbor. "Never worry about your heart till it stops beating. 
• Whatever is going to happen will happen, whether we worry or not.
• I am an old man and have known a great many troubles, but most of them have never happened.
• Do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? 
• Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? 
• And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in his entire splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? So do not worry, saying, ``what shall we eat?'' or ``what shall we drink?'' or ``what shall we wear?'' For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 
• Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own. 
• If you're in a bad situation, don't worry it'll change. If you're in a good situation, don't worry it'll change.
• The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles, but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly.
• Worries are the most stubborn habits in the world. Even after a poor man has won a huge lottery prize, he will still for months wake up in the night with a start, worrying about food and rent.
• If men swear that they want to harm you when you are asleep, you can go to sleep. If women say so, stay awake
• There are two things over which you have complete dominion, authority and control of your mind and your mouth
• If you want to know the end, look at the beginning
• It is the calm and silent water that drowns a man
• Being happy is better than being king
• Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.
• “We have no right to ask when a sorrow comes, 'Why did this happen to me?' unless we ask the same question for every joy that comes our way.”
• Rain does not fall on one roof alone
• Your bad words against me actually benefit me. When you incite others against me, you actually benefit me.When someone goes around spreading bad words against you, she may actually benefit you in a way. For example, the other people will realize that the other person is really bad for what she says about you. Or, the other people will come back to you and tell you what the person is saying against you and you will know that she is a person to avoid - hence a benefit to you.
• If you wish to know the mind of a man, listen to his words. 
• What saves a man is to take a step. Then another step
• Never regret. If it’s good, it’s wonderful. If it’s bad, it’s experience.
• “I don’t miss him, I miss who I thought he was”
• Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.
• We don’t stop loving someone; we simply learn to live without them.
• Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
• Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
• Instead of thinking about what you're missing, try thinking about what you have that everyone else is missing.
• There are two ways of being rich. One is to have all you want, and the other is to be satisfied with what you have.
• I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am in.
• When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.” 
• For every effect there is a root cause. Find and address the root cause rather than try to fix the effect, as there is no end to the latter.
• When you don’t get what you want, you suffer. If you get it, you suffer too since you can’t hold on to it forever.
• What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
• Holding on to anything is like holding on to your breath. You will suffocate. The only way to get anything in the physical universe is by letting go of it. Let go & it will be yours forever. 
• The man who removes a mountain begins by carrying away small stones.
• We see things not as they are, but as we are.
• If the going is real easy, beware, you may be headed downhill.
• Experience is what you get when you don’t get what you want.
• The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.
• In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: It goes on.
• The superior man is easy to serve, but difficult to please ... The inferior man is difficult to serve, but easy to please.
• To avoid criticism, do nothing, say nothing and be nothing.
• Losers visualize the penalties of failure. Winners visualize the rewards of success.
• We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a habit.
• I've never been poor, only broke. Being poor is a frame of mind. Being broke is only a temporary situation.
• Courage is being afraid but going on anyhow.
• Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life. What is it you would let go of today?
• Relationships-of all kinds-are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.
• There's one sad truth in life I've found while journeying east and west - The only folks we really wound are those we love the best. We flatter those we scarcely know; we please the fleeting guest, and deal full many a thoughtless blow to those who love us best.

• As you think so shall you be! Since you cannot physically experience another person, you can only experience them in your mind. Conclusion: All of the other people in your life are simply thoughts in your mind. Not physical beings to you, but thoughts. Your relationships are all in how you think about the other people of your life. Your experience of all those people is only in your mind. Your feelings about your lovers come from your thoughts. For example, they may in fact behave in ways that you find offensive. However, your relationship to them when they behave offensively is not determined by their behavior, it is determined only by how you choose to relate to that behavior. Their actions are theirs, you cannot own them, you cannot be them, you can only process them in your mind.
• Never tell your problems to anyone...20% don't care and the other 80% are glad you have them.
• Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
• You've got to take the good with the bad, smile with the sad, love what you've got, and remember what you had. Always forgive, but never forget. Learn from mistakes, but never regret.

• My best dreams and worst nightmares have the same people in them.The only people you need in life are the ones that need you in theirs

• We often fear the thing we want the most.
• The biggest lie on the planet: "When I get what I want I will be happy."
• Whatever you are willing to put up with is exactly what you will have.
• The choices we make, and the chances we take, determine our destiny.
• The biggest mistake I’ve made in my life is letting people stay in my life far longer than they deserve.
• Never make permanent decisions on temporary feelings....

• It's the rule of life: everything you've always waited for comes the very second you stop looking for it.

• Forget about me, erase me, don't even think back. Because one day when you let your mind slip, you'll remember me and realize that you should have held on
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• Never go back into an old love, no matter how strong it is, because its like reading a book over and over again when you already know how it ends....

• If you don't run your own life, somebody else will.
• “First we make our habits, then our habits make us.”
• “The sign of an intelligent people is their ability to control their emotions by the application of reason”
• “We cannot always control our thoughts, but we can control our words, and repetition impresses the subconscious, and we are then master of the situation.”
• He who loves 50 people has 50 woes; he who loves no one has no woes.
• Health is the greatest gift, contentment the greatest wealth, faithfulness the best relationship.
• I never see what has been done; I only see what remains to be done.
• You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.
• You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger.
• A friend to all is a friend to none.
• All human actions have one or more of these seven causes: chance, nature, compulsions, habit, reason, passion, desire.
• I count him braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his enemies; for the hardest victory is over self.
• No one loves the man whom he fears.
• “The key to change... is to let go of fear.”
• “Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.”
• “What we seek we shall find; what we flee from flees from us.”
• “Always do what you are afraid to do.”
• “Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.”
• “Fear is a habit; so is self-pity, defeat, anxiety, despair, hopelessness and resignation. You can eliminate all of these negative habits with two simple resolves: I can!! and I will!!”
• “The longer we dwell on our misfortunes the greater is their power to harm us”
• Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything - all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important.
• He who is overly attached to his family members experiences fear and sorrow, for the root of all grief is attachment. Thus one should discard attachment to be happy.
• Whores don't live in company of poor men, citizens never support a weak company and birds don't build nests on a tree that doesn't bear fruits.
• The biggest guru-mantra is: never share your secrets with anybody. It will destroy you.
• We should not fret for what is past, nor should we be anxious about the future; men of discernment deal only with the present moment.
• Before you start some work, always ask yourself three questions - Why am I doing it, What the results might be and Will I be successful. Only when you think deeply and find satisfactory answers to these questions, go ahead.
• Never make friends with people who are above or below you in status. Such friendships will never give you any happiness.
• Test a servant while in the discharge of his duty, a relative in difficulty, a friend in adversity, and a wife in misfortune.

• There is some self-interest behind every friendship. There is no friendship without self-interests. This is a bitter truth.
• There is another old poet whose name I do not now remember who said, "Truth is the daughter of Time."
• Sometimes, being quiet is the best weapon you have.
• The minute you think you're going to lose something, it suddenly becomes the most important thing in your life.
• Life becomes so much better when you decide not to care and just live for the moment and not let the drama bring you down
• Sometimes u have to distance yourself to certain people not because u don't love them, its because you have to move forward with your life
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• A well-known speaker started off his seminar by:Holding up a $20.00 bill in the room of 200, he asked, 'Who would like this $20 bill?' Hands started going up. He said, 'I am going to give this $20 to one of you but first, let me do this. He proceeded to crumple up the $20 dollar bill. He then asked, 'Who still wants it?' Still the hands were up in the air. Well, he replied, 'What if I do this?' And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe.He picked it up, now crumpled and dirty.'Now, who still wants it?'Still the hands went into the air.

          My friends, we have all learned a very valuable lesson.

No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth $20. Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We feel as though we are worthless. But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value. Dirty or clean, crumpled or finely creased, you are still priceless to those who DO LOVE you. The worth of our lives comes not in what we do or who we know, but by WHO WE ARE and WHOSE WE ARE.

You are special. Don't EVER forget it.' 

• If God brings you to it - He will bring you through it.
• Expecting life to treat you well because you are a good person is like expecting an angry bull not to charge because you are a vegetarian.
• At some point in our lives, all of us experience the struggle of letting go. We tend to cling to old habits or resentments that make our progress forward difficult or even impossible. When we encounter impasses in our life, we summon our old stubbornness and pride and hopelessly thrash about. Fighting our defects means living from a “me” instead of “we” perspective. Old habits die slowly. We experience many old feelings of shame and remorse over past binges, as well as regrets about failed relationships. These feelings haunt us with an intensity we hadn’t known while we were medicating our feelings.
• When we are confronted with unpleasant feelings and the necessity to change, we may fall back on our deepest instinct – we fight. Whether the problem is to move on after a relationship ends, we cannot change as long as we struggle.
• Change is frightening. The past may have been miserable, but at least it was familiar. We become comfortable with old habits and thought patterns which keep us from growing. Our negative thoughts can snowball and, at times consume us. Negative thinking separates us from a sense of belonging, suffocates our hope and prevents us from gaining true happiness. Negativity has been a part of our lives for so many years; we need a great deal of practice to develop positive views.
• If we pause in the midst of our struggles and worries, we can give ourselves time to let a new realization sink in; we don’t have to fight anymore. We have another choice: we can surrender. Rather than manipulating situations, we can surrender control. Surrender is essentially an act of trust. When we let go, we can trust events to unfold on their own. Trust gives us a sense of acceptance, and through acceptance we find serenity. 
• Paradoxically, surrender is not the same as giving up. Surrender means exchanging “me” for “we”; letting go.
• Many of us cling to old habits and problems, even though we realize they cause more harm than good. Deep in our hearts we feel alone in the world. We should share our strengths, experiences and hopes. Listening to suggestions would be appropriate, instead of dismissing ideas that differed from ours. Gaining a sense of connection with others helps build a spiritual foundation that will sustain us in times of trouble.
• It may be easy to slip into old ways of thinking during times of stress and look for impulsive, desperate or easy solutions. We need to remember we now have more options than we had previously thought imaginable. We are humans, with all the freedom which that brings. When we are confronted with a problem, we feel afraid; but by cultivating a positive attitude of faith and hope we can put our problems in perspective.
• Times of pain are always opportunities for growth. We don’t need to solve all our problems in a day; we don’t have to solve all our problems by ourselves. All we need to do is reach upon ourselves, through meditation and prayer.
• Patterns of being overly critical and controlling usually mean we are avoiding taking a good look at ourselves. We may be ignoring a character defect. It’s easier to blame our problems on someone else. When we let go of our efforts to change other people, we take responsibility for our own growth and change. We can turn things around by realizing we are not the center of the universe. We are each separate and unique.
• Isolation is another warning that tells us to let go. We often isolate ourselves when we feel secretly ashamed about a problem. We may be in an abusive or overly dependent relationship. We should begin by being honest with ourselves and others, instead of telling them everything is fine. We need to be gentle with ourselves and patient with others.
• The pain of personal growth is part of the human experience. While going through painful periods, we can be good to ourselves.
• Always remember a person who talks to you about others, will also talk to others about you..
• Relationships do not need promises, terms, and conditions. It just needs two wonderful people; one who can trust and one who can understand.
• There's a point in your life when you get Tired of fixing everything and trying to make everyone happy. When you finally decide to quit Its not giving up Its realizing you don't need certain people and The bulls**t they bring to your life
• You know what? Yes, I have changed. I'm not as nice as I used to be because I don't want to get used or walked over. I don't trust everyone and tell them my secrets because behind every fake smile is a backstabbing b**ch. I distance myself from people because in the end, they're going to leave. I have changed because I have realized that I'm the only person I can depend on
• Don't lower your standards. Instead, wait for people to rise up to your expectations.
• Never get too attached to anyone because attachments leads to expectations and expectations lead to disappointments.
• Seriously, life is better when you decide you don't care.
• No need for revenge. Those who hurt you will eventually screw themselves up. And if you're lucky, God will let you watch.
• You will never be happy if you don't stop looking back, if you can't let go of your past. Things can only haunt you if you let them. People are only remembered if you refuse to forget them. You can either live or survive. You can either be the hero or the victim. It's your choice.
• Never give your secret to anyone because if you can't keep it to yourself don't expect others to.
• Life is too short. Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness. Laugh when you can, apologize when you should, and let go of what you can’t change. Love deeply, and forgive quickly. Take chances, give everything, and have NO regrets. Life is too short to be unhappy. You have to take the good with the bad, smile when you’re sad, love what you got, and always remember what you had. Always forgive, but *never* forget. Learn from your mistakes, but never regret. People change, and things go wrong, but always remember….life goes on 
• The second step to allowing yourself to move on is to ask yourself the reason for your pain. Avoid easy and simple answers such as you loved him/her or he/she was a great person. Delve deeper and analyze yourself to really discover what is making you so incredibly sad. Try making a list if his/her good and bad qualities and a list of the good and bad qualities of your relationship. For instance, are you upset because you really miss your ex, or because you do not want to be alone? Truly understanding what you miss so much will help you to focus your energies on exactly what you wish to overcome.
• Respect your efforts, respect yourself. Self-respect leads to self-discipline. When you have both firmly under your belt, that's real power.

• It took me a long time not to judge myself through someone else's eyes.
• A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her.  
• If you really put a small value upon yourself, rest assured that the world will not raise your price. 
• Aerodynamically the bumblebee shouldn't be able to fly, but the bumblebee doesn't know that so it goes on flying anyway.
• Your value is the product of your thoughts.  Do not miscalculate yourself worth by multiplying your insecurities.
• Do not doubt the goodness in you.  It is inappropriate.  
• Men harm others by their deeds, themselves by their thoughts.
• Great tranquility of heart is his who cares for neither praise nor blame. 
• The man who trims himself to suit everybody will soon whittle himself away.
• What happens is not as important as how you react to what happens.

• Lone women, like to empty houses, perish.
• Never buy through your ears but through your eyes.
• Quiet people are well able to look after themselves.
• A quiet tongue shows a wise head.
• A quarrel is like buttermilk: once it's out of the churn, the more you shake it, the more sour it grows.
• Great hate follows great love.
• Patience is poultice for all wounds.
• We'll never know the worth of water till the well go dry.
• "All things grow with time -- except grief."
• By a sweet tongue and kindness, you can drag an elephant with a hair
• The one who loves you will make you weep.

Beautiful quotes, wisdom words, sayings

i'm a passionate patron of beautiful quotes from my early childhood. I collected them, read them in my leisure time and reflect on them. They've many benefits. Learning from other's experiences, mistakes will  save us our time and makes our life easy and fruitful. Another appealing part of wisdom quotes is they codify in one line thousands years of experience. A timeless and priceless wealth I believe.  They never OUT fashioned, they are as ever fresh to apply them in our daily lives. I'm happy if one single individual benefits from my tiny personal collection...

1. Loneliness - “Language has created the word loneliness to express the pain of being alone. And it has created the word solitude to express the glory of being alone.” - Paul Tillich

Materialism - “An attitude to life which seeks fulfillment in the single-minded pursuit of wealth - in short, materialism - does not fit into this world because it contains within itself no limiting principle, while the environment in which it is placed is strictly limited.” - E.F. Schumacher

"Always behave like a duck - keep calm and unruffled on the surface but paddle like the devil underneath."

Never be unfaithful to a lover, except with your wife.

By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher...and that is a good thing for any man.

He knows little who tells his wife all he knows.

A man loves his sweetheart the most, his wife the best, but his mother the longest.

He that displays too often his wife and his wallet is in danger of having both of them borrowed.

Women get the last word in every argument.  Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.  ~Author Unknown

You should never say anything to a woman that even remotely suggests that you think she's pregnant unless you can see an actual baby emerging from her at that moment.

Don't wait for the good woman. She doesn't exist.

Lone women, like to empty houses, perish

You won't regret the men you never killed, but you will regret the women you passed up.

In revenge and in love woman is more barbaric than man is.

The fear of women is the beginning of knowledge.

It is easier to make a glass tube pliable than to convince an obstinate woman she is in fault.

The less you notice them the more they chase after you. There's something perverse about women ... they're all masochists at heart.

They often say woman cannot keep a secret, but every woman in the world, like every man, has a hundred secrets in her own soul which she hides from even herself. The more respectable she is, the more certain it is the secrets exist

While a woman is losing confidence in a man she is usually reposing it in another.

In the choice of a wife, we ought to make use of our ears, and not our eyes.

A woman's heart is much like the moon, always changing but always has a man in it

Have you noticed my absence? Do you miss me? I know you are used to the fact that I'm always looking for you, on being me the one that texts you first. I've always been there for you, doing the impossible just to see you smile. I've waited too long, but my heart finally told me to stop suffering for someone that doesn't appreciate me. I wish you noticed my absence and you feel the same way I do. I wish you noticed that the world doesn't revolve around you, that you don't always get what you want, and that you realize that I was the person you need. I know one day you will miss my calls, my cute messages, and my smile. Because that's life.. Once you forget and get away from the person that you love, they come back, making you believe they love you.. you become the bad guy. I'm not going to be like you, I'm willing to offer you my freidnship and forgive you for all the lies and broken promises because one day you were part of my life and you teached me a lesson. For that thank you, old friend..

Don't hate, it's too big a burden to bear. - Martin Luther King, Jr.

Where there is love, there is pain - Spanish proverb

He who loves the more is the inferior and must suffer. - Thomas Mann

The man who masters his own soul will forever be called conqueror of conquerors.

He who conquers others is strong; he who conquers himself is mighty. - Lao-Tzu

Never fail to know that if you are doing all the talking, you are boring somebody. - Helen Gurley Brow

Love understands love; it needs no talk. - Frances Ridley Havergal

Silence is one of the great arts of conversation. - Hannah Moore

A gossip is one who talks to you about others; a bore is one who talks to you about himself; and a brilliant conversationalist is one who talks to you about yourself. - Lisa Kirk

The less said the better. - Jane Austen

Cheat on a good woman or man, and karma will make sure you end up with a b*tch or jerk that you deserve.

Happiness is a CHOICE. You are the only person who can make you happy. You are as happy as you choose to be.

Listen to people when they're angry, because that is when the real truth comes out.

The pain of personal discipline is temporary; the pain of regret is permanent.

If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace you are living in the present.

We live in a world where anything is possible. It can be deceiving, better yet it can be achieving and believing. It all depends on the way you look at this world and how you act in it. By now, you know that no one is perfect and mistakes are meant to happen in order for us to learn from them. If we be patient, great moments will take place and our view to life might even change to the better. So go out there, do whatever it takes, live your life to the fullest, act like everyday is your last, make every moment last, never let anyone hold you back from what you believe, keep your head held high, regret absolutely nothing, stay with your loved ones, stay strong, and always keep a smile on your face while you are at it, you never know, any day could be your day, make it count!

When nobody else celebrates you, learn to celebrate yourself. When nobody else compliments you, then compliment yourself. It's not up to other people to keep you encouraged. It's up to you.Encouragement should come from the inside.

they dont miss u when u gone they miss u when u move on.....

You came in my life for a second time, but it was different. You took my heart and played games. I should have known by what people were telling me. I guess it was because you had me but you made a mistake and now you lost me.

When two people are meant for each other, no time is too long, no distance is too far, and no one can ever tear them apart..

Always remember to forget
The things that made you sad.
But never forget to remember
The things that made you glad.
Always remember to forget
The friends that proved untrue.
But never forget to remember
Those that have stuck by you.
Always remember to forget
The troubles that passed away.
But never forget to rem...

Getting angry because someone made a mistake is punishing yourself for the mistakes of others!

Good or bad, whatever we do will come back in one form or another .....

Never look for beauty in women; it is inversly proportional to time, it will fade away. Look for someone who will make you smile every time you wake, someone who will give that grin when she calls. Look for someone who knows the true meaning of LOVE!

don't talk too much, people will see you naked..

The tree does not withdraw its shade even from the woodcutter. So love even those who hurt you, they'll realize your worth someday

i was how blind folded ..by your fake love..
ur fake love..it covered up my eyes ..
u cuddled me up in fake promises ..ur love blinded me..
reality reveald layer by layer..my eyes opening up..i m not accusing you of cheating but of pretending...wich u need not to..or intend to..
niw you re gone..so better stay out and away from me..
i have closed all doors of my heart..now ders no way for you to come in..

Sometimes, you have to accept the fact that some people are going to stay in your hearts forever even if you are long ago gone in their hearts.

It takes time to forget. But sometimes we really have to move on and face the fact that certain chapters of our lives should be closed for good.

I don't live my Life to please anyone. I don't care what anyone thinks. If you don't Like me, don't Talk to me....PROBLEM SOLVED...!!!

NEVER ALLOW YOURSELF TO BECOME AN OPTION !!!

When we wait, and continue to wait for someone to decide if we are what they need, we not only limit our lives, but we also say to ourselves that we aren't important enough to be treated as special as we deserve to be.

We should never give someone the opportunity to make us an option that they can come back to whenever they please. We have to have enough confidence and respect for ourselves to know that our life should never be centered around another person. If a person truly loves us for who we are, they would never leave us hanging out to dry so long that we have no clue of when or if they will ever come back.

Be yourself, and do the things that make you happy, when you do along the way you will find someone willing to be happy with you, instead of someone who feels like they can put you down, and pick you back up whenever they please...!!!

you can't let other people stress you out. because even if the world around you is out of control, you have the choice to be in control.

Whenever life drops NEEDLES and PINS along your path in life, don't stay away. Instead, PICK them up and collect them.. so that the same pins won't hurt you again.

The Loneliest people are the Kindest. The Saddest people smile the Brightest. The Most Damaged people are the Wisest. All because they do not wish to see anyone else suffer the way they have..

Spend your time on those that love you unconditionally...Don't waste on those that love you when condition are right for them...!!!

There is no market for your sorrows in this world. So, never advertise them.

Care too little, you'll lose them. Care too much, you'll get hurt.

Forgiveness does not work alone....it has a partner in time.

Good or bad, whatever we do will come back in one form or another .....

the end of love is not end of life ... its the beginning of Understanding that love ends for reasons and leaves with lessons

Never Go Out Of Your Way To Explain Someone Your Honest & Worth. Time Has Its Own Way Of Showing The Truth....!!

"When I'm feeling anxious about a situation that could have multiple outcomes, I think of what the absolutely worst outcome could be - and I try to accept it. Once I do that, I'm not afraid of facing the situation anymore, because in my mind I've already made peace with the worst thing that could possibly happen"

Never go back to the person who always caused you pain, confusion, or trouble; they'll only cause more.

What's worse than losing someone you love? Losing yourself just for someone you love.

Two options in life: change yourself to be what they want, or change them to be what you want.

Things People Should Not Do.
Cheat on someone who really loves them.
Play with people's feelings.
Lead someone on when you have no intentions of staying with that person.
Pretend to care about someone just to get what you want/need from them.
Forget about their friends after getting into a relationship.
Take good people for granted. Appreciate what you have now because it won't always be there.

God often removes a person in your life for your protection. Think about that before you go running after them.

My heart is not a playground, go play somewhere else.

Learn to appreciate what you have, before time makes you appreciate what you had.

One day you'll love me, the way I loved you. One day you'll think of me the way I thought of you. One day you'll cry for me, the way I cried for you. One day you'll want me, but I won't want you...

If you cannot see the perfection of the picture then you are standing too close to the picture."

Be the first to praise and the last to criticize.

At some point we need to let go of the troubles of the past in order not to forsake our own destiny or well being.

The things and people who stressed you out yesterday, don't belong in this day.

1-If it's because of her eyes or her lips or her great body.
-It's not love, it's a LUST

2-If it's because of her intelligence or insight about life.
-it's not love, it's and admiration

3-If it's because she cries everytime u try to leave.
-it's not love, it's PITY.

4-If it's because she makes u forget 2 study and sleep.
-it's not love, it's infatuation.

5-Love - is when you don't know why you seem to be attracted to dat person..

(Love has its reason, and that reason is unknown!)

"2 GET" & "2 GIVE" Creates Too Many PROBLEMS But JUST DOUBLE IT "4 GET" & "4 GIVE" Solves all the PROBLEMS. Live with a Simple Attitude..!!

No matter how much you revisit the past...there�s nothing new to see.

Nothing u achieve in the end of your life makes your life worth living, but everything else in between. So don't worry with what u will have, just enjoy every moment living (:

You're going lose people in your life and realize that no matter how much time you spent with them or how much your appreciate them and told them so, it will never seem like it was enough.

People cheat because they're paying more attention to what they're missing than what they have.

I'm only responsible for what I say, not for what you understand.

Our relationship went from happiness, to love, to doubt, to fights, to stress, to pain, to hate, to regrets, to memories what won't go away

I may not be your first love, first kiss, first sight, or first date but I just want to be your last.

Do not raise your voice. Improve your argument.

A boy knows how to get what he wants. A man knows how to keep what he gets.


How To Have A Lovely Day In 10 Easy Steps

1. Smile At Strangers.
2. Slow Down
3. Say Thank You
4. Give Lots Of Compliments
5. Dress Nicely
6. Wear Perfume
7. Observe And Listen
8. Be Charming
9. Laugh
10. Wish People A Lovely Day



Ignoring is a sign of disrespect that is unwelcome....

Never be uncivil with the one you once loved, because remember you once loved them and were civil, you can do it again

Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of withering, of tarnishing...

No matter how much you do for a person, true colors always reveal themselves.Can't change a person, you can only accept them for who they are, you choose to deal with them or not deal with them

Never dwell on what was, deal with what is and look forwards to what might be.

You are the books you read, the films you watch, the music you listen to, the people you meet, the dreams you have, the conversations you engage in. You are what you take from these. You are the sound of the ocean, the breath of fresh air, the brightest light and the darkest corner. You are a collective of every experience you have had in your life. You are every single day. So drown yourself in a sea of knowledge and existence. Let the words run through your veins and the colors fill your mind.

Go only where you are wanted. Go only when you are needed. Stay only if you are appreciated.

Some people are in our hearts, but not in our lives.
Some people are in our lives, but not in our hearts.

Feeling pity for yourself is the worst thing you can ever do in life because no one really cares and is a waste of your valued time and energy,so get up,stand up and fight your own troubles.

People seldom find love when they're looking for it; it usually happens when they never see it coming.

If You Tell The Truth, It Becomes A Part Of Your Past. If You Lie, It Becomes A Part Of Your Future.

Before u walk away from what we have,before u turn away and leave my world, just because of 1mistake, keep in mind that I tried my best, and what I felt was real, I'm not perfect an don't expect me to be....I can't stop u from leaving, I can only hope you will forgive me... It was good while it lasted... But Life must go on..its true, I'll miss u, I can't stop the pain but with time...it will fade, with time...I'll be able to live without U..WITH TIME I'll live my life again and I promise you, I will be FINE.God is my witness and this whole thing will be my testimony in future....so help me God..



Life is never certain, not everything turns out the way it is suppose to be constructed, this notion of good always winning over evil is only a fantasy for the weak which is nothing more than hopeful belief for the constructed mind with a innocent heart. Believing in such a thing contradicts how life is played out, for example - say you are playing a role playing game and you find that the hero is about to lose to the villain, then you make the decision to reset the game so the hero can win, however life is not as simple as getting your way all the time. In life there is no reset button you can push to make thing right, life plays out however it is. Here is a similar example - say that the hero you left behind in your game continued from where you left off, have you ever wondered whatever became of that hero you abandoned? It is no different from the cold bite of reality, there are times when things are screwed, all the hoping, wishing and belief in the world can not change it, you either have to endure it, live with it or even a combination of both....


Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me..

The best thing is to be respected, the next, is to be loved; it is bad to be hated, but still worse to be despised.

A wise man adapts himself to circumstances, as water shapes itself to the vessel that contains it.

A foolish husband fears his wife; a prudent wife obeys her husband.

Choose silence of all virtues, for by it you hear other men's imperfections, and conceal your own.

Do not lift a rock only to drop it on your own foot

A man can be happy with any woman, as long as he does not love her.

Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.

Adopt the pace of nature:  her secret is patience.

Patience is the best remedy for every trouble.

One minute of patience, ten years of peace.

The key to everything is patience. You get the chicken by hatching the egg, not by smashing it.

Never run after a bus or a man. There will always be another one.

Patience is the companion of wisdom.

Beware of him that is slow to anger; for when it is long coming, it is the stronger when it comes, and the longer kept. Abused patience turns to fury.

In every girl's life there will always be those three guys: the one she hates, the one she can't get enough of, and the one she loves--and in the end, they're all the same guy...

If you really, truly love someone, you can't stay mad at them forever. As much as you want to hate them for what they've done, your heart won't let you.


"There are things we don't want to happen
but have to accept,
things we don't want to know,
but have to learn,
and people whom we can't live without,
but have to let go."


In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends

To silence another, first be silent yourself.

True silence is the rest of the mind; it is to the spirit what sleep is to the body, nourishment and refreshment.

Silence is one of the great arts of conversation.

A silent mouth is sweet to hear

You will find that silence or very gentle words are the most exquisite revenge for insult.

Silence is one of the hardest arguments to refute.

There is no reply to the ignorant like keeping silence

The best answer to anger is silence.

I have learned silence from the talkative, tolerance from the intolerant, and kindness from the unkind; yet strangely, I am ungrateful to these teachers

Silence is the true friend that never betrays.

Better to bend in the wind than to break.

Fortune has a fickle heart and a short memory

sow melon, reap melon; sow beans, reap beans.

Respect the gods and the devils
but keep them at a distance

He who depends on himself will attain the the greatest happiness

A fool judges people by the presents they give him.

Silence is a source of great strength.

We need to find God, and he cannot be found in noise and restlessness. God is the friend of silence. See how nature - trees, flowers, grass- grows in silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence... We need silence to be able to touch souls.

Deep vengeance is the daughter of deep silence.

A man who lives right, and is right, has more power in his silence than another has by his words.

When in doubt, choose change.

Dear Heart, fall in love only when you're ready, not when you're lonely

Happiness is like a butterfly.
The more you chase it, the more it eludes you.
But if you turn your attention to other things,
It comes and sits softly on your shoulder.

Feelings come and feelings go. There is no need to fear them and no need to crave them. Let them come, and then let them go. No feeling is your permanent reality, no matter how intense it is.

We must let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves

The superior man acts before he speaks, and afterwards speaks according to his action.

"We cannot change our past. We can not change the fact that people act in a certain way. We can not change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude

The key to change... is to let go of fear

Self-discipline begins with the mastery of your thoughts. If you don't control what you think, you can't control what you do.
Simply, self-discipline enables you to think first and act afterward."

I have a simple philosophy: Fill what's empty. Empty what's full. Scratch where it itches.

The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for

In reading the lives of great men, I found that the first victory they won was over themselves... self-discipline with all of them came first.

A man without decision of character can never be said to belong to himself... He belongs to whatever can make captive of him.

Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anybody else expects of you. Never excuse yourself. Never pity yourself.
Be a hard master to yourself-and be lenient to everybody else.

Rule your mind or it will rule you.

I have learned to live each day as it comes, and not to borrow trouble by dreading tomorrow.  It is the dark menace of the future that makes cowards of us.

As a rule, what is out of sight disturbs men's minds more seriously than what they see.

There are two days in the week about which and upon which I never worry... Yesterday and Tomorrow.

That the birds of worry and care fly over you head, this you cannot change, but that they build nests in your hair, this you can prevent.  ~Chinese Proverb

When I look back on all these worries, I remember the story of the old man who said on his deathbed that he had had a lot of trouble in his life, most of which had never happened.

Worry a little every day and in a lifetime you will lose a couple of years. If something is wrong, fix it if you can. But train yourself not to worry. Worry never fixes anything.

Don't waste your life in doubts and fears: spend yourself on the work before you, well assured that the right performance of this hour's duties will be the best preparation for the hours or ages that follow it.

Never let life's hardships disturb you ... no one can avoid problems, not even saints or sages.

I am reminded of the advice of my neighbor. "Never worry about your heart till it stops beating.

Whatever is going to happen will happen, whether we worry or not.

I am an old man and have known a great many troubles, but most of them have never happened.

Do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes?
Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?

Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?

And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labour or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith?

So do not worry, saying, ``What shall we eat?'' or ``What shall we drink?'' or ``What shall we wear?'' For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.

Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.

If you're in a bad situation, don't worry it'll change. If you're in a good situation, don't worry it'll change.

The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles, but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly.

Worries are the most stubborn habits in the world. Even after a poor man has won a huge lottery prize, he will still for months wake up in the night with a start, worrying about food and rent.


If men swear that they want to harm you when you are asleep, you can go to sleep. If women say so, stay awake

There are two things over which you have complete dominion, authority and control of your mind and your mouth

If you want to know the end, look at the beginning

It is the calm and silent water that drowns a man

Being happy is better than being king

Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.

We have no right to ask when a sorrow comes, 'Why did this happen to me?' unless we ask the same question for every joy that comes our way.

Rain does not fall on one roof alone

A person who wants you out of her/his place will not tell you, 'Get out!

Your bad words against me, actually benefit me. When you incite others against me, you actually benefit me.

When someone goes around spreading bad words against you, she may actually benefit you in a way. For example, the other people will realize that the other person is really bad for what she says about you. Or, the other people will come back to you and tell you what the person is saying against you and you will know that she is a person to avoid - hence a benefit to you.

If you wish to know the mind of a man, listen to his words.

What saves a man is to take a step. Then another step

Never regret. If its good, its wonderful. If its bad, its experience.

I dont miss him, I miss who I thought he was

Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.

We don't stop loving someone, we simply learn to live without them.

Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.

Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option

Instead of thinking about what you're missing, try thinking about what you have that everyone else is missing.

There are two ways of being rich. One is to have all you want, and the other is to be satisfied with what you have.

I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am in. -- The Bible, Phillipians 4:11 (NASB)

When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.

For every effect there is a root cause.Find and address the root cause rather than try to fix the effect, as there is no end to the latter.

When you don't get what you want, you suffer. If you get it, you suffer too since you can't hold on to it forever.

What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.

Holding on to anything is like holding on to your breath. You will suffocate. The only way to get anything in the physical universe is by letting go of it. Let go & it will be yours forever.

The man who removes a mountain begins by carrying away small stones.

we see things not as they are, but as we are..

If the going is real easy, beware, you may be headed down hill.

Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.

The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.

In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: It goes on.

The superior man is easy to serve, but difficult to please ... The inferior man is difficult to serve, but easy to please.

To avoid criticism, do nothing, say nothing and be nothing..

Losers visualize the penalties of failure. Winners visualize the rewards of success.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a habit.

I've never been poor, only broke. Being poor is a frame of mind. Being broke is only a temporary situation.

Courage is being afraid but going on anyhow.

Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life. What is it you would let go of today

1. Start very small.
2. Do only one change at a time.
3. Be present and enjoy the activity (don't focus on results).
4. Be grateful for every step you take.
In programming, this is called an algorithm. It's a series of steps that you can apply to make any change, no matter what your situation.

Relationships-of all kinds-are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.

There's one sad truth in life I've found While journeying east and west - The only folks we really wound Are those we love the best. We flatter those we scarcely know, We please the fleeting guest, And deal full many a thoughtless blow To those who love us best.

As you think so shall you be! Since you cannot physically experience another person, you can only experience them in your mind. Conclusion: All of the other people in your life are simply thoughts in your mind. Not physical beings to you, but thoughts. Your relationships are all in how you think about the other people of your life. Your experience of all those people is only in your mind. Your feelings about your lovers come from your thoughts. For example, they may in fact behave in ways that you find offensive. However, your relationship to them when they behave offensively is not determined by their behavior, it is determined only by how you choose to relate to that behavior. Their actions are theirs, you cannot own them, you cannot be them, you can only process them in your mind


Someday, my memories of her will fade. Her voice, her actions I might forget them as well. But even then, I will always remember that I loved her.

Never Go Out Of Your Way To Explain Someone Your Honest & Worth. Time Has Its Own Way Of Showing The Truth....!!

I may not be the perfect, but i am amazing, loyal, honest and one of a kind. I am WORTH it. If you can't see that, it's your LOSS and you don't deserve me..

don't try to get which is NOT YOURS, But don't dare to lose which is YOURS.

If they can't make you happy, don't let them make you sad.

Ladies. If a man really wants to be with you. You WILL know it!!! If you have to question it, let it go!!!

If there is trust it will grow, if there is love it will grow. If we rush we will never know, just have to go with the flow

Being friends after break up is like to have dead dog as your pet.

Love isn't pain until you think about your past...

There is Nothing more painful than fighting for person, who decided to give up on you ..

Relatives are like a hot sun; Always relationships should be maintained at distance to feel the warmth, too close relationships will burn you down

When we don't learn lessons at the right time, life will teach us the same lessons at the wrong time.

I count him braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his enemies; for the hardest victory is overself.

Being male is a matter of birth.... Being a man is a matter of age .... but being a Gentleman is a matter of choice.....

A bend road isn't an end road

There are things we regret.. words we wished had gone unsaid, beginnings that have bitter endings, chances we threw away, roads we should have never taken, signs we didn't see, hearts we hurt needlessly and wounds we wished we could mend, the past that can't be rewritten but can make you stronger...

be thankful for every change, for every heartbreak, for every scar.... pages were turned, bridges were burned.. but I, I have learned, I have learned....

Did you know? Your enemies can be your number one fan, they secretly watch your every move and obsess about you unknowingly! So always stand tall, fill your space with love, joy & peace. It constantly gives them something to talk about!

Trust the one who holds your future, not your past.

When I truly care for someone, their mistakes never change my feelings because its the mind that gets angry but the heart still cares.

When someone really loves you, they don't have to say it.. You know, just the way they treat you..

The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than what you settled for. Don't be afraid to believe that you can have what you want and have what you deserve.

a personal problem is like a knife. you can pick it up and stab yourself with it or you can just hold it in your hand a bit and then throw it away being grateful for the learnings

Earning relation is more difficult dan earning money. . Money can b earn by cheating but not relation

Never play with the feelings of others, Because you may win the game but the risk is that you will surely lose the person for a lifetime.

People always look at me in a very weird way and wonder why I am smiling, joking, and happy all the time. Still, behind my Perfect smiles,There are perfect crimes done by people whom I forgave and set free

Women who seek to be equal with men lack ambition.

I decided, very early on, just to accept life unconditionally; I never expected it to do anything special for me, yet I seemed to accomplish far more than I had ever hoped. Most of the time it just happened to me without my ever seeking it.

I find hope in the darkest of days, and focus in the brightest. I do not judge the universe.

In essence, if we want to direct our lives, we must take control of our consistent actions. It's not what we do once in a while that shapes our lives, but what we do consistently.

Consider this: if you can save $500k, and you average 10% on your investment portfolio, you will gain $50k annually without doing anything other than having the money.  $2 million will earn you $200k per year (earning 10%).  $10 million will earn $1 million per year.  The more you invest, the more you'll make, without lifting a finger (well, other than managing your money, of course).

One last note:  $1 at age 18 can't get you more than a coke, or maybe a dollar menu burger.  But $1 at age 18 is worth $54 at age 60 (assuming 10% again).  Keep that in mind the next time you stop at Starbucks.  Your cup of joe is actually taking more than $150 out of your retirement fund.

You could take the $1,825 and invest it. Even if you add nothing to it, you could reap significant rewards. A very conservative estimate if your investment earns 4% and is compounded once a year shows that you could have $147,000 after 35 years. All you would have to do is give up life�s little luxuries for 1 year, invest that amount, and theoretically let it sit for 35 years.

Twelve or fifteen commandments for life for a better life.

Twelve Commandments for life..

I read somewhere about Twelve Commandments for a rich and rewarding life for every individual. Every human should have a purpose in life. With out it, life becomes a suffering and not worthy living.

Following list I guess if embraced or followed will make your life productive provided you've little bit of spirituality, empathy built into your self. Unless you believe, true change comes from with in, this stuff doesn't appeal for you. please pass on.. Believe it or not, true change or happiness comes from with in .. A fool tries to change the world But wise changes himself.

I added another 3 commandments which beg to fit into the list. So, technically this is list of 15.

1. Be Yourself
2. Let it Go
3. Act the way You want to feel
4. Do it NOW
5. Be polite and be fair
6. Enjoy the process
7. Spend OUT ( Stop hoarding, to trust in abundance)
8. Identify the Problem
9. Lighten up
10. Do what ought to be done
11. No calculation (when one loves, one doesn't calculate.)
12. There is only LOVE
13. Less is MORE
14. Talk 2 Strangers
15. Giving makes you rich.

The health living manifesto

I attribute this following blog post to Celestine Chua. You can full article related to this wonderful manifesto @ http://personalexcellence.co/blog/healthy-living/

Good health is a great gift from God. We all humans know all lives when compared to eternal universe or billions of years old earth is so fleeting in nature.  Though our life is so short, we neglect our divine purpose on this earth running after vanities, materialistic life.

This manifesto is well thought out. Follow few of them on a daily basis, you'll reap great benefits in long term..